after 28 years i still don’t really know.

but, i wanted to update people on a few things.

you might have thought of me as male. i’m not male. i don’t know what terms feel right still, but i tend to gravitate toward “nongendered”, “agender”, and “nonbinary”. sometimes i think just “queer” is enough, sometimes it’s not.

my pronouns are they/them and it/its. www.mypronouns.org is a great resource to learn more about personal pronouns in english.

i go by the name “moss” now, preferably written all lowercase like that.

i’m still growing and exploring and learning about myself. i don’t have many concrete answers and i don’t think i really want them, in the end. all i’d like is for people to give me the space and compassion to continue.